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Love & Relationships

Marriage as Serious Play

Everybody knows that marriage is “hard work.” But is it? I mean, is that the best way to think of it? Maybe not. “Marriage is hard work” is not an immutable law of nature. It’s a manmade concept. A concept is a shortcut for the brain, a tool to help…
February 16, 2024
Love & Relationships

Our Secret to a Happy Marriage

Guy and I have had 27 Valentine’s Days together, all of them happy. People have asked, “What’s your secret?” Good Luck I first want to acknowledge our privilege. We are lucky to be educated, well-employed, and white. It awards us right out of the gate an ease that not every…
February 14, 2022